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(90 Likes) Why do conservative men complain that liberal women don’t want to date them? They argue that conservative women are prettier, while liberal women are fat, ugly and unattractive.
ktrum. In this current environment, there is growing hostility towards men considered conservative, especially those who would openly fly the Trump flag. This would be the #1 deal breaker for the typical liberal woman (I can’t say I don’t understand why). Assuming that only 70% of eligible men in DC are liberals, that creates quite a bit of disparity in the dating scene. If political differences break the deal, it’s three conservative guys chasing every conservative girl. Not the most likely. Well-adjusted, attractive conservative women seem to get caught up pretty fast in this type of setting. They would probably be much luckier in their hometowns. But in general, whenever someone gets into a situation where they are romantically rejected by almost everyone, they will be frustrated before they even step out the door. Finally, Real Baby I haven’t seen anything in this article claiming conservative men that liberal women are ugly. This is the kind of shit that’s been floating around mostly on alt-right/MRA forums by men who (mostly) have trouble getting along with women of any political affiliation. ps I’ve been watching The Wire recently (extremely minor spoilers ahead). The other night I saw the scene where McNulty was on a date in DC, about late 2004, and he shrugged, “I didn’t vote, so what?
(79 Likes) If she wants a sex doll, where would be the ideal place for total privacy?
I am aware that there is a social stigma surrounding toys like this. But I realized that if women can buy dildos, what’s wrong with me getting a “friend”? I’m not going to sit next to her at the dinner table pretending to be my wife or something. Not unless it’s magically revived! No, I think it would be good for me to get one of these. Not ideal obviously. But I’m not in a situation where getting “out there” and picking up women in bars is really a realistic option anymore. Meeting people in places like this didn’t interest me at all. And the “beautiful” women I like got married and settled down more or less a long time ago, so I’m thinking: why not? Simulated sex is better than nothing, right? And if I dim the lights, light a few candles, and put on Greatest Love Hits by Richard Clayderman, I think I can convince myself that I’ve had a really intimate moment with someone who is extremely shy. Only then does reality seep back in after she pulls out parts of her anatomy and cleans them in the kitchen sink… But never mind the truth! I could be totally wrong about all of this, but I have a feeling that maybe getting a doll will make me feel less alone. It’s not a real company, but it can look like a real company if you pay enough cash. And for me this is a start. How many men own fleshlight? Millions, probably. Well it’s just a lifetime
(46 Likes) Why are so many tech companies producing sex dolls? Do they not encourage rape among users?
I’m going to establish some facts and personal background before I actually answer. I am a victim of childhood abuse by both approved pedophiles and child abusers. I have written extensively on this subject and some of the articles are on my profile. I am not a pedophile or someone who sexually abuses or abuses children. Pedophilia, or sexual attraction to pre-teens, is something that occurs in some people, although estimates of exact percentages vary. It is not something one chooses to be, it cannot be conditioned into or out of them. As far as we know, it is very possible that some people are born pedophiles and there is nothing that can be done about it. Most of the sexual abuse of children is not perpetrated by pedophiles, but by garden variety abusers who target children because children are easy victims. Now that we’ve got that out of the way, let’s look at the goals here. The problem with our society right now when it comes to pedophiles is that we demonize anyone who is a pedophile. They make a great punching bag because anyone who is attracted to children is clearly a bad person, right? The fact that they can’t curb their lure is completely ignored, and we lump people who are pedophiles but who don’t actually take any action (including watching child pornography) with those who do. Because of this stigma around pedophiles, there isn’t a lot of solid research on this topic and what research is heavily dependent on pedophiles who are subjectively offensive. Non-offending pedophiles rarely participate in studies because of the stigma associated with being a pedophile, so we have a limited sample size. When it comes to dealing with pedophiles as a society, the goal is and should be to reduce the harm done to children. In other words, there should be less abuse of children, whatever the goal. If you look at it from this angle, when it comes to sex dolls that look like pre-teens, the answer is that we should eventually let them if it lessens the harm done to real children. As for whether they actually reduce harm to children, we don’t have enough data to say one way or another. Evidence suggests that if they have access to a way of sexually relieving themselves, such as with a doll, it makes them less likely to offend a pedophile. There is no evidence to suggest that any increase in activity, such as using dolls, will increase the likelihood that someone will abuse children. We can speculate that people are less likely to take action, similar to the massive amount of evidence that shows that people who play violent video games are less likely to engage in violence in real life, and that as porn use increases, people are less likely to commit sexual assault. on impulses with a real boy, if they have some kind of ethical outlet. The main way criminal pedophiles actually start committing crimes is by watching and collecting child pornography. This hurts children and is also wrong because you have to abuse real children to produce it. So having an outlet that doesn’t abuse children will make it less likely that any pedophile who falls prey to child pornography will do so. This leads us to the logical conclusion, if we could create child pornography without hurting children, would it be allowed? As animation gets better, this may one day be possible. These are tough ethical issues that need to be addressed. The thing is, it personally bothers me and makes me nauseous. The idea of someone using a childlike sex doll and watching animated porn of people having sex with children is repulsive (and personally triggers me). However, we must not forget that we have a goal in mind, and that the goal is less abuse and harm to children. So if something that offends and disgusts us, but hurts no child, will make real children less harmed, I’m in for it. So I lean towards no on whether they should be illegal or not. They should be allowed and we should do more scientific work to make sure they are really doing what we hope they are doing: making pedophiles feel less offended. I’d probably be in favor of having them prescribed by a psychiatrist or something like that who would monitor the person using them and make sure they don’t harm a real child. However, this is out of my wheelhouse. Are they promoting and normalizing a cultural climate that condone child abuse and pedophilia? Why or why not? Do movies and games depicting violence condone real violence? All the evidence points to no. In fact, healthy people can separate fantasy from reality, and so we can actually enjoy fantastic things that we would never turn a blind eye to. There is strong evidence that having these fantasies keeps people from doing immoral things in real life. So rape fantasies are fine, but real rape isn’t. Continues. When it comes to normalizing and condoning pedophilia, we need to normalize it, because we need to accept that pedophilia or people with pedophilia are normal and exist. We have to normalize their sexuality and help them act accordingly. This is really important. Normalizing child sexual abuse is not something we should ever do (and again, there is no evidence that child sex dolls do this). Getting help to normalize pedophiles by accepting their attractiveness and preventing them from harming children is something we need to do. Summary: As someone who was sexually abused as a child, I am ready to support anything that prevents another child from being sexually abused. This is to sanction the child and
(89 Likes) People insult me for falling in love with a love (sex) doll. I don’t just use it for sex. I hug him while he sleeps and just watch TV or movies with him. Should I do what my co-workers tell me to be mentally evaluated?
good idea. No, it doesn’t feel mentally typical or normal so I will see a Psychologist and be very honest. If it doesn’t deter your level of functionality or harm someone else, it may be good for you. However, it wouldn’t be a bad idea to explore possible reasons why you might have this desire for a doll, just to make sure it’s not linked to a problem that could or could become a problem.
